Being sexually and intamitely liberated is a new space that I decided to finally just take by it’s neck. Finding comfort in singleness after experiencing love for the first time seems like the biggest switch up even when I’ve been on that side of the fence before.
It’s taking lots of internal balance & faith in this path of love and the resurrection of my confidence & personal beauty to remain sane.
Thinking about what it takes for me to be a sexually liberated being is a process of two things ; loving my body enough to be comfortable to allow myself and others to explore it with pleasure and love And having belief that my love isn’t for everyone, and that with care and intimacy also comes respect. So if someone doesn’t respect you they don’t deserve you and how will I know what I like if I don’t know my body ?. Both of these elements allow me to explore, yet also control my sexual liberation.
I know - that may be the first time that you’ve heard/read those three words together in once sentence; Sex , liberation, & control? - How do they even coexist as one ?
I practice a few things that I’m going to touch on, but first things first, i’m not a hater of the process that any other person may take to navigate their sexual liberation, as long as it is universally healthy for them and their partner(s) then that’s all that matters ;
Anyway, here’s what works for me to balance out my sex .
DO YOU FIND SELF PLEASURE TO BE A NORM IN YOUR ROUTINE ?
WHAT ARE YOUR GO-TO TOYS?
IF YOU FIND MASTURBATION TO FEEL SLIGHTLY OUT OF BODY , WHAT ARE SOME CONCERNS THAT LEAVE YOU FEELING THIS WAY ?